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"Because She Is a Mother"

I am a member of an LDS Motherhood group on Facebook. As I was scrolling through my newsfeed the other day I saw that someone posted a talk by Jeffrey R. Holland titled "Because She is a Mother." This talk was something that I needed to read at the time, and the words within in the talk are things that I know I will need again and again in the future.


"Today I wish to praise those motherly hands that have rocked the infant’s cradle and, through the righteousness taught to their children there, are at the very center of the Lord’s purposes for us in mortality."

"In speaking of mothers generally, I especially wish to praise and encourage young mothers. The work of a mother is hard, too often unheralded work. The young years are often those when either husband or wife—or both—may still be in school or in those earliest and leanest stages of developing the husband’s breadwinning capacities. Finances fluctuate daily between low and nonexistent. The apartment is usually decorated in one of two smart designs—Deseret Industries provincial or early Mother Hubbard. The car, if there is one, runs on smooth tires and an empty tank. But with night feedings and night teethings, often the greatest challenge of all for a young mother is simply fatigue. Through these years, mothers go longer on less sleep and give more to others with less personal renewal for themselves than any other group I know at any other time in life. It is not surprising when the shadows under their eyes sometimes vaguely resemble the state of Rhode Island."

"Of course the irony is that this is often the sister we want to call—or need to call—to service in the ward and stake auxiliaries. That’s understandable. Who wouldn’t want the exemplary influence of these young Loises- and Eunices-in-the-making? Everyone, be wise. Remember that families are the highest priority of all, especially in those formative years. Even so, young mothers will still find magnificent ways to serve faithfully in the Church, even as others serve and strengthen them and their families in like manner."

"Do the best you can through these years, but whatever else you do, cherish that role that is so uniquely yours and for which heaven itself sends angels to watch over you and your little ones."

"Mothers, we acknowledge and esteem your faith in every footstep. Please know that it is worth it then, now, and forever."

"But one thing, she said, keeps her going: “Through the thick and the thin of this, and through the occasional tears of it all, I know deep down inside I am doing God’s work. I know that in my motherhood I am in an eternal partnership with Him. I am deeply moved that God finds His ultimate purpose and meaning in being a parent, even if some of His children make Him weep."

"In light of that kind of expression, it is clear that some of those Rhode Island–sized shadows come not just from diapers and carpooling but from at least a few sleepless nights spent searching the soul, seeking earnestly for the capacity to raise these children to be what God wants them to be. Moved by that kind of devotion and determination, may I say to mothers collectively, in the name of the Lord, you are magnificent. You are doing terrifically well. The very fact that you have been given such a responsibility is everlasting evidence of the trust your Father in Heaven has in you. He knows that your giving birth to a child does not immediately propel you into the circle of the omniscient. If you and your husband will strive to love God and live the gospel yourselves; if you will plead for that guidance and comfort of the Holy Spirit promised to the faithful; if you will go to the temple to both make and claim the promises of the most sacred covenants a woman or man can make in this world; if you will show others, including your children, the same caring, compassionate, forgiving heart you want heaven to show you; if you try your best to be the best parent you can be, you will have done all that a human being can do and all that God expects you to do."

"You can’t possibly do this alone, but you do have help. The Master of Heaven and Earth is there to bless you."

"You are doing God’s work. You are doing it wonderfully well. He is blessing you and He will bless you, even—no, especially—when your days and your nights may be the most challenging."

Find the whole talk here.


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The difference a year can make..

We signed the papers and got the keys exactly a year ago today We have put so much hard work into making this house a home that is perfect for us, and we have loved every minute of living here. We loved our neighborhood in the summer when we saw and later moved into this house last summer. We loved this neighborhood even more with each passing season. (Although, we probably didn't love it as much during winter because winter sucks in any neighborhood where it is snowy and cold..) We have grown to love our church family. Our neighbors are nicer than we could have hoped for.

This is our first house. This is the home that we brought Hudson home to when he was days old. Where we watched him roll over, crawl, and will later watch him take his first steps and say his first words. This is where we had our first garden. Where we took care of our first lawn that was our own.

We knew when we bought this house that it would not be our forever home. I knew that we would one day sell this home. I never knew how sad it would make me to even think about selling this house. I know that my love for this house will grow even more as the years go by. This house will forever have a special place in my heart.

Before
18ish weeks pregnant with Hudson

Before & After
Of course, the wreath changes depending on the season/holiday.
What better place to start than the front door?

Before 
Living room

In progress

In progress

After
There was no overhead light in the living room when we moved in.
My dad and Taylor installed the ceiling light/fan.

Before 


After
They're a dark, dark brown

Before 
Dining room

After

Before
Hudson's room

After

After
Before
3rd bedroom
After
It now has a bed, desk, and some shelving in this room. 
It's our craft/guest room.

Before
Master bedroom

After 
(Brittany Stanly Photography)
I don't have a picture of the whole room, but this at least shows the new paint color.

Before
After
The decorations have changed on the shelves, and I love it even more after changing what we originally had on the shelves. 

Before

In progress


After, but still in progress.
We still have to make one more garden box (our peas were already growing there before we decided that we wanted garden boxes) and fill in with woodchips.

Mudroom.
After
I don't have a before picture, but the room was just kinda gross.
They kept their dogs in there so it smelled terrible, and it was just gross. 

Before
You can kind of see how big and overgrown the tree bush things were on the side of the house.

After

Before
The white tree on the right was dead as can be.
Apparently it died at least 10 years ago, and no one has taken the time to cut it down.

After but still in progress
We cut down the tree a couple of weeks ago, but we still have to pull the stump out. 

After

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12 Months of Hudson// Month 7

-15 pounds 14 ounces. 26 and 1/2 inches long
-5 ounces every 4 hours unless he has had some solids.
-Sometimes sleeps through the night, but he is usually up once a night.
-Size 2 diapers
-Still in 3-6 month clothes with only 3 or 4 6-9 month onsies that aren't too big.
-Gets on his hands and knees and rocks back and forth and then launches onto his stomach.
        -He is able to moved his knees forward when in a crawling position, but he hasn't figured out the hands yet.
-Has got the army crawling down. Well its more of both arms and feet pushing off at the same time, but, still, the boy is moving.
-He will army crawl crazy fast to get our phones if they get left on the floor. And he is literally never allowed to have our phones so he is quite proud if he can get them.
-Sits himself up from lying on his stomach. So weird to go get him from his crib and have him be sitting up. He's a houdini with this. I don't know that I have ever seen him do this, but I will turn around, and he will all of a sudden be sitting.
-Loves his rubber ducky during bath time
-Growing lots of hair. It is without a doubt blonde.
-Loves cords. If one of our laptop cords gets left out he pounces on them like a cat on a mouse.
-Constantly grabs us(our shirts, arms, legs) and tries to pull himself to standing. He doesn't really try to use anything else to stand up with.
-Has started to splash with his hands while in the bath
-Eats solids once a day, sometimes twice.
-Loves his baby food and will eat anything that we give him.
-We have given him some foods that weren't pureed, and he did great with them. So far we have given him steamed cauliflower, bananas, peas, cantaloupe, and watermelon. I imagine that this list will grow substantially in the next month.
-We went out to dinner the other night and he loved bites of rice from my burrito.
-He absolutely loves it when we give him little tastes of our treats.
        -The Thomas in him shines through with his love for ice cream.
-He has started to get some seperation anxiety. He doesn't seem to care much if any one person leaves, but if someone walks out of the room and he is alone or sometimes when we walk out of the room after putting him in his crib he will cry because he is being left.
-His nose is always red. I think it's from burrowing his head into the ground while trying to get on his knees, but we don't know for sure.
-Not a single tooth yet. He's rocking a runny nose right now, has been crankier than normal, and sleeping worse lately so he might be teething that first tooth or he just has a cold. We will see.

He showed his true personality at his 6 month check up. He soaked the paper sheet on the table with drool and managed to rip it up even with me doing my best to not let him. Both the Dr and nurse commented on how cute he is and how much he smiles(like they always do). The Dr had minor concerns about his weight gain so we go back in on the 30th to have him weighed again. He did as well as one can expect with his shots, wasn't as grumpy the next day like last time, and we are so excited not to have to get shots at our next check up.

I left Hudson on the floor with a bottle and went to rinse off some dishes. Next thing I knew I heard a toy rattle, and I knew that there weren't any toys close to him when I walked away. I could not believe how fast he moved across the room. We are definitely in a new stage!

I've had multiple people in the last month ask me if Hudson is a year old or almost a year old. They are always surprised when I tell them his age. Giving his percentiles he is not a big boy for his age, so I don't know if it is because he has hit has always hit his motor milestones a little early or if he simply looks older than he is. Either way, I would prefer that he stay little forever.


Loud as can be and this boy slept like a rock through it.


Spitting all day every day.
He has even figured out how to do it with his bink in.

This was from a week ago, and he has gotten so much faster now.

Kelsey's wedding day.
I swear that I will blog about it (and everything else I need to catch up on) in the next week or two. 

Father's Day love for his Poppy.
&When your stroller tray looks so tasty..

Helping me put away the laundry.
&My favorite breakfast making sidekick. 

He's going to have a sharing problem when he gets a sibling.
&His 6 month check up. 

These two<3
&Eating becomes so taxing. 

The innocence of a baby is my one of my favorite things.
&He loved cantaloupe!

Driving in the parking lot at dad's work to go grab something.
&Independence Day!

Swimming at Lava Hot Springs
&How can you not love that chocolate ice cream face?

Hudson fell asleep on the pew in church one Sunday.
Taylor said the closing prayer in sacrament meeting.
As soon as Taylor started talking he woke up and looked around for him. 
The second picture just kills me.

When diapers go on sale, you buy them.
&We bought a convertible car seat just after he turned 4 months old. 
We only use his infant seat if he is riding in Taylor's truck.
Well, we hadn't used it in over 2 months, and I simply could not believe how big he looked. 

The best napping partners.
Except Hudson was wide awake just hanging out in the second picture. 

These shoes were the cutest, but I was too cheap to buy them for him.
&The cutest little cow I ever did see for cow appreciation day at Chik-fil-A

He crawled all the way over to his walker only to play with the edge of the carpet.
&How is my little baby able to do this now??


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